Posts Tagged ‘eco-friendly’

The jam + preserves ready to go!

Way back in the planning process, I’m talking like 10 months in advance, I sent an email round to all my friends and family who did canning, was interested in learning, or had gardens at their disposal. What Alex and I wanted to create with our ‘country kitsch’ theme was a home town, relaxed affair that not only reflected a bit of good ol’ Americana but also my family as well. And one of the things about my family is that we ALWAYS has home-made jam in the house. Whether it was my mom, my g’ma or an aunt, home-made jam we had.

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Yay! You got married!

And now your house is full of sh*t.

Mine was anyway. When we left to drive to New York for the wedding, our car was packed. And when we left to come home, it was still about 70% as full as when we started.

So your wedding generated a lot of SCHTUFF.  It’s pretty typical to overbuy things (like favours, stationery, food/booze, dishware, any any number of decoration or craft supplies, etc.) either “just to be safe” for your numbers or because it was cheaper to buy a larger quantity in bulk than to buy the exact right amount. Heck, maybe you just got your numbers wrong, or you changed your mind about using something! Not to mention all the stuff that is acquired to be used but not given away or consumed (vases, card box, lights, candles, etc.). Whatever the reason, unless you used a service to arrange EVERYTHING, the chances are you walked away from your wedding somewhat weighted down.

Seriously, you need to put effort into minimizing the bulk. It’s not going to happen on it’s own, and it’s so easy to put it off until it’s 5 months later and you still have to maneuver around a box of 30 martini glasses every time you try to use your desk (yes, that’s me – I’m giving those glasses a dirty look as I write this).

Ideas For Managing the Wedding Leftovers *based on things I did AND didn’t do*

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Designs by C. Bors

As I write this over in England, I’m listening to the newly-popular-to-me Lady Antebellum and dreaming of when we can possibly incorporate ‘Something ‘Bout a Woman’ into our special California mountain day. With our website up-to-date for our oh-so-awesome second wedding, it is indeed time to email out the Save the Dates! Or, should I say, “Lasso the Dates”…

Our university friend, first person to cotton on to the fact that we were dating, and gorgeous bridesmaid is the mastermind behind this fantastic array of Save the Date choices: the heels with the spurs, the “Californ-i-a,” the concept that I would actually be doing some boot scootin’ on my wedding day (hunt for cowgirl boots shortly to commence!).

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Photo used via m kasahara flickr photostream

8.  It’s environmentally responsible. When someone buys your wedding dress, that means that the energy, materials, waste, and carbon cost from shipping that would come from making a new dress are cancelled out.

7. It discourages unfair labor practices. It’s great if you can find a vintage dress you love or have one custom-made by a seamstress, but most wedding dresses are made in countries that have a history of treating their workers terribly.  By offering someone else the chance to buy your gown, you are lodging an act of protest for workers worldwide.

6. It saves you money and space. Cleaning, preserving, and storing a dress can eat up a lot of money… not to mention the space in your closet.  Who knew tulle could take up so much room?

5. Your children will have their own taste. Wearing the dress one of your parents wore when they wed is tres romantique, true.  But fashion changes, and who’s to say your kids will have the same passion for ruffles, rouching, or rhinestones that you do?  Come to think of it, what if they never get married at all?

4. It’s easy to resell. I’ll be selling my wedding dress through PreOwnedWeddingDresses.com because they make it simple and inexpensive, get tons of traffic, and are gay-friendly.  (I know because the founder told me so!)

3. Share the love! If you love it, chances are that someone else will too.  Why not pass on the joy of discovering THE dress?

2. “Trash The Dress” photo sessions can be expensive. More power to you if that’s what you choose to do, but I find something a little off-putting about deliberately destroying a symbol of your marriage.

1. Get the most out of your investment. Frankly, who couldn’t use a little more money in their pocket after their wedding?